We’ve all had that moment right before we head out to a dinner party, that we realize we don’t have a gift for the host. Re-gifting a bottle of wine doesn’t cut it, and grocery store flowers are usually lacklustre. But imagine if you were always prepared with a closet full of unique and thoughtful gifts that any host or hostess would love to receive. According to Sara La Fond, owner of Toronto’s iconic decor shop Jacaranda Tree & Co., being prepared is easier than you’d think.
Jacaranda Tree & Co. has been an anchor in North Toronto since 1984 offering unique home items, hostess gifts, tableware, linens, refined stationery, and paper goods. What started as a mother and daughter shared dream of all things beautiful continues today as a space that celebrates charm, craftsmanship, and thoughtful living.
The best hostess gifts aren’t about price — they’re about perception. They signal appreciation, taste, and attention to detail. Whether you’re attending an intimate dinner or a grand holiday soirée, the art of choosing the right gift lies in understanding the host’s world and the occasion’s energy.
Tips for choosing the right hostess gift
Read the room (and the host)
Think of your gift as an extension of the evening. For the minimalist host, a bottle of organic olive oil or a tea towel feels intuitive. For the romantic, a hand-poured or beautifully scented candle. Always reflect their aesthetic — not yours.
Choose quality over quantity
A single exquisite item beats a basket of filler every time. Opt for well-crafted, sensory pieces — fine gourmet provisions, beautiful linen hand towels or hand-blown glassware. The goal? Something they’ll actually use, and remember you by.
Consider presentation
How it’s wrapped matters as much as what’s inside. A ribbon in the host’s favourite colour, or a handwritten note on fine stationery, turns even a modest gift into something meaningful. Packaging is storytelling — it’s where thought becomes visible.
Be seasonally mindful
Lean into the moment. In winter, think warm fragrances, soft textures, and flavours of comfort — cozy throws, candlelight, festive scents, or a special holiday ornament. In summer, lean toward citrus-scented soaps and French linens. Gifts that echo the season always feel intentional.
Keep it effortless to enjoy
A hostess gift should never create work. Choose something ready to use or display — not a project. Think “open, enjoy, remember.” The best gifts make
the host feel instantly appreciated, not obligated.
Jacaranda Tree & Co.’s Golden Rule
The perfect hostess gift is a conversation in object form — a quiet thank-you, beautifully said.
Four no-fail hostess gift ideas for festive occasions
1. Festive Cocktail Napkins + Sabre Paris Pâté Knife
High-quality (and recyclable) paper napkins are the perfect hostess gift when heading to someone’s home for dinner — simple, thoughtful and instantly useful. For an added touch of charm, place the napkins in a rattan napkin holder, and slip a Sabre Paris Pâté Knife into the bow. At Jacaranda Tree & Co., custom wrapping will elevate the gift even more.
From $33
2. Saltspring Kitchen Spread + Tiny Gold Spoon
A lovely, ready-to-gift pairing for any hostess. The Saltspring spread is made in BC, and the Sabre Paris spreader — with its pearlized finish — adds a refined, sparkly touch to the season. If you’d prefer a more cost-friendly option, you can swap in a little gold spoon.
From $24
3. Kanel Sea Salt + Sabre Paris Spoon + Petite Enamel Bowl
A fabulous and unique hostess gift — beautifully packaged, practical, and elevated. Kanel’s premium spice blends paired with a chic Sabre Paris demi-tasse spoon and a petite enamel bowl make this a little trio any home cook would love.
From $25
4. Festive Scented Candle + Decorative Matches
From $41
If you’re looking for more gift ideas, we’ve got you covered. If you have room to splurge, we also have this luxury gift guide, including a smart coffee mug and more designer porcelain. For the glamourous foodie in your life, check out our list of food-inspired beauty products. We also have an eco-conscious gift guide, full of sustainable and practical presents. Lean into a more quirky and unique vibe with these adorable food-shaped candles.
